tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6506305897742962637.post5300925228202276694..comments2024-03-29T07:15:40.935-06:00Comments on Going Country: DoneKristin @ Going Countryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00221544641416039741noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6506305897742962637.post-35867813943728500142023-02-28T11:57:34.689-07:002023-02-28T11:57:34.689-07:00So many years later, and I read this, and it gives...So many years later, and I read this, and it gives me hope. God bless you. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6506305897742962637.post-75711859811244688652013-05-08T12:28:08.963-06:002013-05-08T12:28:08.963-06:00Hello, I am (have been) a lurker as well. Started ...Hello, I am (have been) a lurker as well. Started reading from present day and currently on 03/24/11...but then today started from the beginning. Never have commented, and yes I have been temtped, until this post. Made me cry...only because I know you will be blessed, TWICE! <br /><br />*Love the blog, my morning coffee.<br />Reader from TexasAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6506305897742962637.post-80761313589976969562009-08-05T07:13:22.483-06:002009-08-05T07:13:22.483-06:00I just found your blog yesterday, and am working b...I just found your blog yesterday, and am working backwards through your 2008 posts. I'm so sorry that you have gone through this!!!! I'll be thinking of you<br />KrisQuiltedSimplehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17125600585948205404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6506305897742962637.post-80322366574885675222008-12-23T14:44:00.000-07:002008-12-23T14:44:00.000-07:00We have one of those "Couldn't get pregnant, could...We have one of those "Couldn't get pregnant, couldn't get pregnant, couldn't get pregnant, TWINS, thought were sterile so adopted one, TWINS AGAIN" friends, as well. <BR/><BR/>Whatever. Your story is the one that matters. <BR/><BR/>And the 'reject' thing? That's crap. Don't take crap from anyone, that includes yourself. <BR/><BR/>***HUG***Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6506305897742962637.post-73237358813319974452008-06-09T08:02:00.000-06:002008-06-09T08:02:00.000-06:00Ugh. I'm sorry. Like sarapmccc (vegetarian mind me...Ugh. I'm sorry. Like sarapmccc (vegetarian mind meld?)--I don't really know what to say that would be comforting, other than yes, this does really suck. <BR/><BR/>Of course I hope you don't permanently lose hope, and I hope you do get pregnant eventually. But there's also a time and place to feel despondent--don't "buck up" for anyone's sake but your own. Our friends who have gone through adoption processes have talked about the time it took to exhaust and grieve their other possibilities, and I think that is important work. <BR/><BR/>Oi. Okay, when we see you next, mum's the word.Tina Posthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12658680379398227047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6506305897742962637.post-71280454162718588882008-06-06T07:14:00.000-06:002008-06-06T07:14:00.000-06:00I'm so sorry. Fertility problems are one of the cr...I'm so sorry. Fertility problems are one of the cruelest things life can throw at you. And then you see stories on the news about the mother who leaves her toddlers at home alone while she goes to bars and...GAH. So unfair. I watched my sister go through 3 years of fertility treatments/procedures to no avail.*<BR/><BR/>*She's 15 weeks pregnant right now. COMPLETELY unplanned and by total accident, 2+ years after she stopped all treatments, needles & pills. Who knew? Sending you positive thoughts.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6506305897742962637.post-14018194627523297472008-06-05T22:15:00.000-06:002008-06-05T22:15:00.000-06:00I don't know you and I'm not even sure how I found...I don't know you and I'm not even sure how I found your blog. I wish I had some words of wisdom to offer you. It sucks and I'm sorry. But don't regret publishing this post. You need somewhere to just vent.jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05925212233815659494noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6506305897742962637.post-51752063512468458802008-06-05T16:16:00.000-06:002008-06-05T16:16:00.000-06:00sweet funny country girl,i'm sorry. i've been ther...sweet funny country girl,<BR/><BR/>i'm sorry. i've been there and i empathize with the pain and anger and exhaustion which you so eloquently write about it. i wish there was something bigger than words. <BR/><BR/>have no regrets for this. it was beautiful.<BR/><BR/>darcyMsPicketToYouhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12304288663203185972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6506305897742962637.post-86392859791790022742008-06-05T16:07:00.000-06:002008-06-05T16:07:00.000-06:00A hard day. Bodies do get out of ajustment; A's a...A hard day. Bodies do get out of ajustment; A's aunt had an out-of-adjustment body for a while, and then she had the boy who was supposed to be born two or three years earlier. Knowing A. and Kristin, if a baby comes, it will come when IT is ready, and not when other people think is a good time. Remember A.'s first sentence: "Don't want to."milhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14345505680646592744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6506305897742962637.post-64496734257924768622008-06-05T15:42:00.000-06:002008-06-05T15:42:00.000-06:00I've got to start reading your blog before I call....I've got to start reading your blog before I call. <BR/><BR/>Being the Polly Anna y'all have always called me, I'm going to be less negative about your future. From what I understand, your body has changed just a bit for the better, and there are just too many stories about pregnancies out of the blue to totally discount future possibilities - especially with your age. <BR/><BR/>However, right now, I desperately wish there was a magic button I could push to make everything all better. Since that didn't exist when you were growing up, it's obviously still not possible. <BR/><BR/>My hope has always been that you'd somehow never have to experience any pain in life. Unrealistic, yes; a part of motherly love, a given. Life really does suck some time! Wish I could be there, even though I know you'll survive and A is there for you.<BR/><BR/>OK, mums the word from here on out.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6506305897742962637.post-9593679951655939402008-06-05T14:06:00.000-06:002008-06-05T14:06:00.000-06:00When God shuts one door,He always,soon or later op...When God shuts one door,He always,soon or later opens a window...Please do not give up HOPE,you are young, love from a friend who lives to far way and had the some problem.Love from Portugal.Laura Fonsecahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00711370061442667520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6506305897742962637.post-65035024561128307982008-06-05T12:53:00.000-06:002008-06-05T12:53:00.000-06:00So sorry to hear this, Kristin. If we should ever ...So sorry to hear this, Kristin. If we should ever meet, when I don't ask about this, that's when I'll be wishing you good things.Drew @ Cook Like Your Grandmotherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02147260973569070400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6506305897742962637.post-65520226439686797812008-06-05T11:51:00.000-06:002008-06-05T11:51:00.000-06:00Kristin: I am normally a lurker too, but I am also...Kristin: I am normally a lurker too, but I am also the MiL's old friend in Minnesota. I am so, so sorry that you have had this experience and disappointment. There isn't any good way to look at it at this moment, I expect. And, so as an "honorary member of the family," as the MiL has called me, I offer my sympathy to you and to A.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6506305897742962637.post-91853304667919313832008-06-05T11:44:00.000-06:002008-06-05T11:44:00.000-06:00Thank you for sharing with us your pain, your ange...Thank you for sharing with us your pain, your anger, your frastration and whatever else...I am sorry that you and your husband have to go through this and I do hope that you'll find a way to deal with it. <BR/>My thoughts are with you.YD, sometimes with ♥June and ♥Angel Samanthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06976378557392639152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6506305897742962637.post-88730524583375782182008-06-05T11:31:00.000-06:002008-06-05T11:31:00.000-06:00Two things, then I'll be quiet.1) Today's inspirat...Two things, then I'll be quiet.<BR/><BR/>1) Today's inspirational post on my desktop: Realize that your prayers are being most wonderfully answered in a way that seems painful, but is the only way.<BR/><BR/>2) My sister-in-law and husband adopted 2 children after trying to have children for 11 years. 3 years after that? Bingo. Two more pregnancies, 4 kids total. She says she looks back and realizes she was soooo not where she is now, and now feels like the best time for those babies. <BR/><BR/>Who knows? <BR/>I wish you peace.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com