You will never properly appreciate your own mother until you become a mother yourself. Which I realize is impossible for the (very few) men in the group reading this, so you'll just have to employ your imaginations.
But for the women, if you become a mother yourself, no imagination is required to realize how hard your own mother worked for you all your life, with very little recognition or thanks from her children. How she will always be working for you, albeit from afar and in a much different way, for the rest of her life. Because moms do that. You can't turn off the mom thing. Once that kid has arrived, you're a mom forever.
My own mother had three children within four years. We were a military family, which meant that especially when my siblings and I were very small, we moved a lot. Packing up three kids and moving them every three years (or even every year or six months, depending on the assignments) requires a level of patience, courage, and fortitude that I'm not sure I possess myself. To say nothing of the solo parenting while my dad was away for extended overseas training.
I have a good mother. A great mother, even. And now that I'm a mother myself, I realize how incredibly lucky I am to be given that role model for my own parenting.
So, to my own mother (who sent ME a card this year, and I didn't even send her one, which tells you a lot about her): The happiest of Mother's Days and all my love and appreciation. Thank you.
5 comments:
Lovely post for your mom.
Thanks for the photos yesterday.
Beth
What lovely comments. The details are different for each of us, but I suspect most of us can join in on the general thoughts.
I'll add this to my mother: Thank you, mom! Despite our clashes over the years, I think you were wonderful. I love you.
You have no clue how much you are going to appreciate you Mom until your kids reach their teens. I call my Mom every day and she just laughs (at me, not with me). Happy Mother's Day.
I called our Mom today to congratulate her. This was my first year as an official "insta-mom" on Mother's Day and I doubt I will ever be as good as ours was. We got an awesome one, sis. And happy Mom Day to you as well-and you are a great one too!
-Moi
I'm cracking up that your Mom sent you a card and you didn't send her one. So totally "mother of a toddler." I remember those years.
I miss my mother so very much. Send your Mother lots of spiritual hugs and kisses, even if you don't send her a card, because I'm certain she can feel the good vibes and someday, well, someday you will miss her.
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