Christmas approaches, and the whole house shows it.
Sunday, December 21, 2025
Snapshots: Here It Comes
Friday, December 19, 2025
Friday Food: A Birthday-ful Week
Friday
Short version: Cheeseburgers on homemade buns, oven fries, green salad with vinaigrette, baked apples and cream
Long version: The younger three children and A. were working down the hill on a masonry job all day, so I knew they would want a very substantial dinner. I was making bread, which is why I made the buns. They make hamburgers much more filling.
We got two five-pound bags of Granny Smith apples from Rafael. Thus, baked apples.
Saturday
Short version: Chicken and chickpea curry, rice, cheese sandwiches later
Long version: I had made stock with the rooster carcasses from Thursday, and then used the meat I picked off the carcasses to make the curry. I also opened one of the giant cans of chickpeas my sister brought me to supplement the chicken.
Sunday
Short version: Asian-ish pork, rice, collards, pickled radishes, baked fruit with cream
Long version: Another of the Wow! pack pork butts, this time flavored with soy sauce, vinegar, garlic, and maple syrup.
We had a week of two birthdays and class Christmas parties coming up, which is why we just had baked fruit for dessert. Relatively wholesome. I used one quart jar of canned apple slices and one of canned pear slices, with extra cinnamon and cloves added.
Monday
Short version: Ground beef gyros, malva pudding with custard sauce
Long version: This was A.'s birthday. I had originally thought to make lasagna for him, as he does love Italian-American food, but then I had the other half of that big can of chickpeas in the refrigerator. So instead, I made (a LOT) of hummus with those, sourdough pita bread, yogurt/garlic sauce, and gyro-seasoned ground beef (onions, garlic, oregano, cumin, thyme). We even had tomatoes and cucumbers.
He was extremely happy with this, as I knew he would be.
His original request for his birthday dessert was tiramisu, but he likes it with all the liqueurs, and I didn't think that would be a great family dessert. His second choice was malva pudding.
Malva pudding was a completely new thing to me. It's apparently a common thing in South Africa, and pretty much only there. A. saw it online somewhere and immediately thought he would like it. I think the apricot jam in it was one of the main attractions.
It's not very hard to make. I used this recipe, because it had slightly less sugar than some others I saw. There didn't seem to be a lot of apricot jam in it, and I thought it would be good with more apricot flavor, so I substituted apricot jam for half the brown sugar in the sauce poured over the baked pudding.
The recipe said you can serve it with either custard sauce or ice cream. We had ice cream on hand, but A. wanted to try custard sauce. I used this recipe for the custard sauce, but I only made a half recipe. This was actually more work to make than the pudding itself, but it was also definitely the right call. Warm custard sauce poured over this pudding is perfect.
The pudding itself was very dense and sweet. The apricot wasn't a dominant flavor, but I think the acidity of it did balance out the sugar even if the apricot flavor wasn't noticeable. The texture of the pudding was much like bread pudding. It caramelizes on the outside and is very soft on the inside. It was delicious, but you definitely would not want to eat too much of it. It's very heavy.
The amount of custard sauce I made was just right for this amount of pudding. My children thought I should have made a double recipe of the pudding, but I think they would have made themselves sick eating more than one serving of such a rich dessert.
In any case, this will certainly be a repeat dessert in our house.
Tuesday
Short version: Leftover curry and rice
Long version: First Communion day, in which I get home at 5:45 p.m. and heat up leftovers. The end.
Wednesday
Short version: Birthday steaks, pureed potatoes, carrot sticks with curry dip, pots de creme
Long version: Youngest son's birthday was yesterday, but an away basketball game meant we wouldn't all be home to have his requested dinner and party. So we did it this night. He wanted steak with herb butter and caramelized onions.
I have lots of caramelized onions on hand, as I made a big batch of them with the many pounds of onions I've been working through. I have parsley for herb butter. I did not have steak. We're not getting our cow from the neighbor processed until next month, which meant that I had to buy steaks at the store.
I knew they would be expensive. They were. The least expensive per pound, oddly, were the t-bone steaks, which are some of my favorites. I got three of those. They were very good.
This child never wants cake for his birthday, preferring instead something dairy-based for his dessert. This year, that was pots de creme. I made a double batch--which is the full recipe as I posted it here--since it was a birthday. It's just solid enough to hold the candles, thankfully.
Thursday
Short version: Subway on the road, leftovers at home, ice cream variety
Long version: This was the youngest boy's actual birthday. I went to the middle boy's basketball game. Because it was in a town only an hour away that happens to have a Subway, youngest son and Poppy came with me and I got them Subway after the game. Sandwiches are the youngest son's favorite food, so this made him happy.
A. and the eldest had leftover steak and potatoes at home.
I had the last few bites of Poppy's ham and cheese sandwich, and the crust of a grilled cheese sandwich left over from lunch. Such a cliche of a Mom Dinner.
When we got home at 6:30 p.m., I got out the many flavors of ice cream I had purchased for a birthday taste test.
Tuesday, December 16, 2025
Christmas Tree Hunting
Per tradition, we have cut our Christmas tree for the year. It's also a tradition for me to take photos and post them here so you can come along on the adventure with us. Let's go!
We always go to a friend's ranch to cut our tree, as the good trees don't grow near our house. I have now discovered the best area for the trees, so we walked right to that area and found a tree within about two minutes.
Monday, December 15, 2025
It's Woodchuck Song Time!
Today is A.'s birthday! Hooray! That means it's time to honor The Woodchuck Man in song! Hooray!
I've been doing this for a LOT of years now. Thirteen years, to be precise. I guess I used to be better at it, because I used to write multiple verses. Now I consider it an accomplishment to come up with just one lame verse.
A. does a lot more than the couple of things highlighted in this admittedly somewhat lame song, obviously. But a tradition is a tradition, so here is the one verse for this year's celebration.
(To the tune of "The Candyman Can")
Then built them back himself?
Who can get an old truck running
With some parts off the shelf?
The woodchuck man
The woodchuck man can
The woodchuck man can
'Cause he uses what he has and makes it work for him
Happiest of birthdays to A., whose woodchucky ways have served us well for so many years.
Sunday, December 14, 2025
Snapshots: A Manatee in a Sweater
In our almost-ghost village, there is a strange cinder block structure that we call the smokehouse. Because that's our best guess as to its original function. The smokehouse is a favorite destination of the children, because you can both go inside of it, and climb on top of it.
Friday, December 12, 2025
Friday Food: My Commercial Kitchen
Friday
Short version: Chili, tortillas with cheese
Long version: I cooked a pot of pinto beans in the morning and then used those, plus ground beef, to make chili. I also added the bag of pureed squash I had thawed a few days before and never used, plus the drippings from cooking hamburgers the day before, and the turkey stock that had been hanging out in the refrigerator.
The tomato product used in the chili was some of a food-service-sized can of concentrated crushed tomatoes that my sister brought when she visited. She and her friend were on their way home from volunteering at a camp, and they brought me all the giant cans of things from the kitchen that would otherwise have been thrown away.
Ditto the broccoli. It went in the cast iron skillet I had cooked eggs in, with olive oil. I did turn the heat up after the chicken was out, though, to get that a bit more browned.
Refrigerator check:
Tuesday, December 9, 2025
On Singing
My brother's birthday was the past weekend. We have a tradition in our family of calling on the birthday and the whole family singing to the birthday person over the phone. I spent all day Friday reminding myself to call and sing when everyone was home after dinner . . . only to forget after dinner.
Boooo.
But! When I texted my brother to apologize, he said no worries, he had been at work anyway (he's an airline pilot) and wouldn't be celebrating his birthday until Sunday. Which meant we had another opportunity to sing.
To make certain that I wouldn't forget this time, I made a note to myself and stuck it on the refrigerator with a magnet.
My mother is a singer and always sang in church choirs, as did my sister. I did, too, when I was younger, although I never learned to read music or sing parts well like they can.
I feel like this is not as common as it used to be, however. Both A. and I were required to participate in elementary school choirs around 5th grade. I have never heard of this now, even in places much larger than here. A couple of my children are able to carry a tune, but not because of any formal training.
Do people not sing as much anymore? What do you think? Do you sing? Do your kids?
Sunday, December 7, 2025
Snapshots: Back Home
There have been a lot of photos of New Orleans lately. But we're back home now, and back to our regular High Plains photos.
Saturday, December 6, 2025
New Orleans Day 4
Did I begin the day with coffee before dawn and a walk when the sun came up? But of course.
Friday, December 5, 2025
Friday Food: A Sunday Thanksgiving
Friday
Short version: Chicken thighs, rice, carrot sticks
Long version: I made chicken thighs for the sole reason that I would need more poultry stock on hand for our delayed Thanksgiving meal. Dressing and gravy take a lot of stock, way more than I get from the actual turkey.
Knowing I would be using the bones of the thighs for stock, I didn't season them very heavily with many spices, instead just using salt, pepper, and thyme on them. I did salt them for a few hours before baking them, which seems to help a lot with texture and flavor.
Saturday
Short version: Freezer skillet, fried bean tacos, raw radishes
Long version: I spent most of the day in the kitchen doing Thanksgiving prep that included pumpkin and pecan pies, cranberry sauce, and the aforementioned chicken stock.

















































